Grief & Loss
Grief is a strong, sometimes overwhelming emotion for people, regardless of whether their sadness stems from the loss of a loved one, parents' divorce, or from a terminal diagnosis they or someone they love have received (or any other situation that causes intense sadness and loss). Loss can be such an emotional, unsettling, and confusing experience (especially loss of a loved one). It is normal to feel very sad, in shock, angry, confused, and experience a whole range of emotions. Grief looks different for everyone – some people may want to talk about it right away, others might want time alone to grieve. It is up to the person experiencing the loss to decide what is best for them.
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Tips for Managing Grief
- Talk to loved ones who also experienced the loss for support and community
- Take a break from academics, if you’re able (let your College Dean know and they can alert professors)
- Take a walk – either with friends or alone
- Let people know whether you want to talk about it or not – so many people will want to support you so as much as you can, let them know what is helpful and what isn’t
- As mentioned, grief looks different for everyone but if after a few weeks, you are finding it difficult to concentrate, take care of yourself, or manage your emotions.
- You may also visit the Chaplaincy for additional support.
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Books
Some books may be available through Boatwright and others are linked to Amazon but please choose whatever book store you would like to support!
- Online Resources
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Videos
- Collateral Beauty (New Line Cinema, 2016): Explores relationships with love, time, and death (trailer)
- The Grieving Process: Coping with Death
- TED Talks on Grief
- Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl (Indian Paintbrush, 2015): The importance of friendship and humor in dealing with the ups and downs of life (trailer)
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Campus Resources
- College Deans: Richmond College or Westhampton College
- Chaplaincy
- CAPS Grief Support Group
Some resources adapted from Appalachian State University Counseling Center